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So my gf has a stalker

Mackatoni said:
Block him....

by messaging him u just fueled the fire, especially the way you worded it and then signed it "her boyfriend". Then again you seem intelligent so i imagine u knew that....
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So did Mackatoni reply to your message yet?
 
Tell this bitch ass that if he keeps bugging her, you'd auto shotty his ass meat into a hamburger patty.

PoWdA said:
So this dude and her kinda dating back when I met her about 6 years ago. After she stopped talking to him he would call her 10 times a day and text her every 20 minutes for around a year. It was sad. We tried to get a restraining order but it wouldn't happen because he never threatened her. He smashed out the window in my car (can't prove it but we know he did) and stole shit from her. We could never prove anything and eventually she had to change her number. Back in November my gf made the mistake of accepting his friend request and he has restarted with the messaging. It was the holidays and he sent her a long apology and in the spirit she responded saying that she hopes his family is good and he has a good holiday. Now he is in full blown stalker mode with the FB messages. Here is a message I sent from her account. Do you think it gets the point across?

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lol guys thanks for the input. I am not really concerned on how to deal with the guy. If I were truly worried about him I would have the police/my lawyer involved. I just thought my asshole response to him was funny. At this point it is just sad that he still try's to contact her.

He did reply saying that he was sorry and said he would stop.

Also, if this guy ever came near me or my family the ass beating he would receive would be epic (after asking him to leave nicely first obv).
 
i hate to be the guy who brings this up. but you said they had a long history together. why would she even consider accepting his request? why would she speak with him? It's interesting to me that if she truly was scared/afraid of him that she would even consider speaking to him. he obviously wants her back. I'd start asking her more questions to see where her mind is at. Hopefully it's nothing more than this guy just being an asshat and her just being unwise.
 
uberjames said:
i hate to be the guy who brings this up. but you said they had a long history together. why would she even consider accepting his request? why would she speak with him? It's interesting to me that if she truly was scared/afraid of him that she would even consider speaking to him. he obviously wants her back. I'd start asking her more questions to see where her mind is at. Hopefully it's nothing more than this guy just being an asshat and her just being unwise.
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Yeah valid question that would involve explaining just how insane my relationship with her has been. Long story short, we were not exactly living together when she accepted his friend request and I can't exactly comprehend why she would do so. Our relationship was exceptionally turbulent last year and we only have been back together about 3 months after about a 7-4 month break. So we were living separate but not seeing anyone else for a few months then we both dated a bit then we ended up getting back together. Long story short: It's complicated.

*awaits chants from the masses of "dump that crazy bitch" and "wtf are you thinking."*
 
PoWdA said:
Yeah valid question that would involve explaining just how insane my relationship with her has been. Long story short, we were not exactly living together when she accepted his friend request and I can't exactly comprehend why she would do so. Our relationship was exceptionally turbulent last year and we only have been back together about 3 months after about a 7-4 month break. So we were living separate but not seeing anyone else for a few months then we both dated a bit then we ended up getting back together. Long story short: It's complicated.

*awaits chants from the masses of "dump that crazy bitch" and "wtf are you thinking."*
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That explains a lot. You've got your big boy pants on though! I'm sure you would have left her if you had good cause. I'm just glad you weren't blind to what was obvious to me. That happens to my friends often and I want to shake and choke them into seeing it! hahaha. I hope it all gets resolved soon. The message you sent should definitely get the point across. Good luck!
 
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