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Bossbitch<3

Bossbitch<3

The 47 Ronin
so i have been broken up with my boyfriend for 9 months now and i have had no contact with him since october when his new girlfriend decided to harrass me on twitter. it was no big deal, just dumb because i've done absolutely nothing. i got an ask.fm account (most of you have no idea what this is) but it basically is an account where people can ask you questions anonymously. it sounds lame but i have a themed twitter account with over 1200 followers and they have been asking me funny questions and it has been really fun. well, my ex found out i had one and him and his girlfriend have just been writing really lame shit on it and I HAVE NO IDEA WHY. why would a 22 YEAR OLD MALE say these things? what do you guys think? i could never picture a girl saying these things...i certainly wouldn't. i'm trying to complete rid him from my life but it's kindof hard when he literally harasses me on multiple social networks daily.

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OH and there was one about my dad who passed away when i was 13 months. i think it said something like "you fatherless whore".
 
Wow. I would've guessed he was on something or drunk, but you're saying this isn't just one bad night?
I don't think any of us would know the relationship history to guess what his beef is, but he obviously hasn't moved on like you have, whether he realizes it or not.
If he's so much happier where he is now, he wouldn't feel the need to harass you. Of course, he can still be jealous of what goes on after the breakup, but it really should no longer be his concern.
 
wow. i admit i came to read this thread because i saw "I NEED MALE INPUT" and i started to salivate and fantisize and was all like "YEEHAW! I CAN DO THAT"... then i read this shit by dre and now i'm kinda pissed off. bit of a boner killer, tbh. (lol)

seriously though, he's writing this shit because he's 22. but beyond attacking the low-hanging fruit (his age), i don't understand why he'd come back and say all these things except to hurt you, bb. obviously, there are some unresolved feelings/issues going on with him for whatever reason... i'm thinking maybe he really, really loved (loves?) you and feels jilted? he was your first, physically - were you his first, emotionally? i dunno as i'm not privvy to the trials and tribulations of your relationship, but his messages up there scream insecurity and immaturity. and the name-calling... what a fucking classless child.

is there any way to request a ban of an ip or to automatically set up a bot to delete his postings? i'm assuming not since that program looks to have a rather lite/small footprint. i think you have a few options, hon: 1) continue to try to reason with him and maybe he'll stop 2) ignore his postings completely and maybe he'll go away 3) take screens and post in places that are important to him 4) take down your site and start anew. the problems i see with each are: 1) he's not being reasonable and it's unreasonable to expect him to hear you and then care enough about you, or see what a fucking rotten jizz-puddle he's being, to stop 2) there's no guarantee he'll get tired of doing this as he seems rather committed to being an asshole and it's going to be very difficult for you in the meantime as he continues to spew his filth all over your page 3) you could embarrass yourself by sinking to his level and/or convince him he's getting to you which may redouble his efforts 4) inconvenience, inconvenience, inconvenience.

bb, you are absolutely allowed to continue to like things after an ex has exposed you to them. sex, drugs and rock and roll were all gifts to me from my ex's, btw - i couldn't be happier being a HUGE fan of each of them now lol so fuck him (obviously not literally ;) ). he doesn't own the right to ska or your lady parts and you can do whatever the fuck you want with them - especially if he doesn't approve. in fact, you should take pics and send them to him to show him how much skank-n-pickle turns you on nowadays! lol in fact, would you mind explaining it to me? i've never seen the attraction of accordians+tubas... but i digress

my advice to you, sweetheart, is to avoid responding to him anymore. if you have mutual friends, avoid discussing him or anything having anything remotely to do with him. avoid telling them anything that'll get back to him (like the url of your personal sites and/or blogs) if you don't trust them 100%. he's getting his jollies by hurting your feelings. don't help him by giving him any more of your time, you and it are way too valuable for this piece of garbage.
 
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ummmmm... wow.... douche bag alert!!!!! first off.... i would start ignoring every thing he posts, dont post back, dont respond, hes looking for a reaction. then i would file a restraining order against him to include online communication.... basically, and hes probably saying these things due to some sort of insecurity or self closure issue...maybe he new gf is "more experienced" and it makes him feel insecure? idk... just rambling here
 
My guess, is he has been mumbling your name at night and his new girlfriend is pissed off. To prove how over you he is, he takes to childish endeavors to hurt you. Built has it right, just ignore, when he does not get the responses he expects he'll eventually tire of the game and move one. Or, you could pay some one to break his legs, this is my favorite as it is far more gratifying.
 
Fasttrak said:
My guess, is he has been mumbling your name at night and his new girlfriend is pissed off. To prove how over you he is, he takes to childish endeavors to hurt you. Built has it right, just ignore, when he does not get the responses he expects he'll eventually tire of the game and move one. Or, you could pay some one to break his legs, this is my favorite as it is far more gratifying.
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Just don't get caught like Aaron Hernandez
 
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