Fred
Contributor
I've always loved the phrase "guns don't kill people, people kill people". It applies to a lot of things really. Just gotta know who you are and what you can and can't do. It's an easy thing to blame the things in our lives for the actions we do, but just learn from it and move on. If you find that you don't have the self control for moderation (or a fully functional straight jacket) then to abstain is the way to go.
Good luck with what ever you decide, and try a nice analgesic creme for the but sex pain.
Good luck with what ever you decide, and try a nice analgesic creme for the but sex pain.